Saturday, March 21, 2009

My Granny is at Danger Zone

Just right now I got an update from my mom that my Lola (grandmother) was just transferred from the ICU to the charity ward of UERM. Just to give you a background of this incident, she just finished 3 series of operations because of a complication found in her large intestine. It was then last week when she was discharge from the hospital and right after few days at around 3AM, she complained of having a hard time to breath that's why she was rushed again to the same hospital and was directed to the ICU area.I really feel bad about this for she was the one who took care of me, watched over me when I was growing and always defend me from my mother (you know how it usually happen that our grandparents turns out to be our attorneys when it comes to a trial versus our parents?!).

Well, things come and go and I have to accept the fact that Lola is not that kinda young to bare the pain that she is suffering right now. This is truly a one big question that I wanted to ask to some people, would you fight to make your love one live despite of the fact that he/she is suffering too much pain and he/she can't bear it anymore or would you let go and let that dying person wait until his/her time is over?


Most people say that it’s better to take a chance when it comes to these kinds of situations but if we talk about practicality, would we consider this as a correct statement? Probably yes if you are wealthy enough and you can support all the expenses but what if you're not? Does that start the final countdown?Well it's true that life is just like a rosary that's full of mystery and death is like a thief at the night, you'll never know when it's going to attack. I just hope that my Lola could still survive this phase of her life and she can celebrate her upcoming birthday on the 15Th of April.

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